Do you need Relationship Rescue?
Relationship Rescue is a longer first session appointment designed for couples in crisis - an affair, separation threat, significant loss etc.
Relationship Rescue gives you:
Auckland's Relationship Rescue Team?
The Relate Counselling team includes experts and specialists with decades of experience and training in issues like communication, dealing with affairs, problems with children, co-parenting arrangements, pre-marriage counselling, new relationship counselling and more.
Get the professional help you need. Counselling with a specialist couples therapist has success rates up to 85% - Get your relationship the best support possible. With non-trained therapists the results are around 50-55%.
Get the support of a team. Many heads are better than one. Our weekly training and supervision sessions give you the support of all the clinical team. This is a free part of our service to you and our commitment to giving your relationship the best possible help.
Feel safe and supported. Relationships are hard work and not all relationships will survive what life throws at them - our team respects your decisions and choices. Counselling is a safe respectful place where your dignity will be protected.
Fall in love again. We do this work because we love seeing people fall in love again and knowing children will grow up - secure and loved. Counselling is not an instant quick fix - it often requires some hard work and sacrifices. But couples relationship counselling can have some quite dramatic and seemingly miraculous impacts - even from a first session.
Relationship Crisis Quiz
Do you or your partner regularly talk or think about leaving the relationship?
When you talk about problems does it escalate to shouting, screaming and violence or threats of violence?
Do you avoid bringing up any difficult issues to avoid conflict?
Is your partner not talking to you (for longer than a day or two)?
Do you fight in front of the children - despite an intention not to?
Do you feel hopeless when you think about the future with your partner?
Have you discovered or are you contemplating an affair?
Have you stopped having sex regularly?
Do you find it hard to think of one positive thing about your partner?
Has your partner broken your trust in a serious way that you can't get over and keeps coming up in conflict situations?
Have you experienced a significant loss that is consuming all your thoughts and energy?
Scoring the Quiz
If you have answered yes to 2 questions you may be in need of relationship rescue or intensive, or marathon therapy.
Men, if your wife has stopped talking to you this is a very serious relationship problem - for women this is a less serious problem
If this is your only issue you may well benefit from communication coaching but probably don't need relationship rescue.
If you answered yes to 3 or more questions your relationship is likely in some serious trouble and would benefit from some immediate help use the button below to schedule a session or email us to have a conversation.
If there has been violence in the relationship please let your counsellor know.